tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1993875912325356887.post6954512013302908994..comments2023-11-02T04:33:42.226-07:00Comments on AZ Mom of Many Hats : Grudges and BoundariesAngie Mozilohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05934039397414210531noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1993875912325356887.post-52559826211439068602012-11-09T02:03:29.715-08:002012-11-09T02:03:29.715-08:00You put it so well: Holding a grudge allows us to ...You put it so well: Holding a grudge allows us to not truly deal with an issue. That's why we do it - because we don't want to face our pain, our guilt, our fear of rejection ... there's always something. And, as you pointed out, healthy boundaries enhance our relationships. When you set healthy boundaries with kindness and compassion, then good relationships get better. The other gets to know you better, and the two of you can find a better way to relate to each other. And bad relationships become obvious ... which, although painful, is a good thing in the end. <br /><br />In answer to your question, I like to think that I set boundaries rather than holding grudges. But if I felt hurt enough, I suspect I would hold a grudge. At least for a little while. Stephanie Sternerhttp://www.set-your-boundaries-your-way.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1993875912325356887.post-87062112639052020162011-07-17T22:06:15.834-07:002011-07-17T22:06:15.834-07:00Girl on a Mission: :) Love you baby! I am hear for...Girl on a Mission: :) Love you baby! I am hear for you any time!Angie Mozilohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05934039397414210531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1993875912325356887.post-14611179995014840542011-07-17T21:17:14.095-07:002011-07-17T21:17:14.095-07:00Thank you Mom, I've taken a lot from, not only...Thank you Mom, I've taken a lot from, not only this conversation, but every other one I've had with you. I'm working to break down those grudges and replace them with boundaries, something I wouldn't be able to do with out you.AZ Minihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10895505061210226356noreply@blogger.com